High school. Stirs many memories, both wonderful and painful.
Small towns. Where everyone knows everyone, for better or worse, usually both.
Football. An American classic from pee-wee through pros and backyards to domes.
Combine those factors, and you get something magical. High school football has been accused of being a religion in some small towns, but it’s really about community and growth. It’s the place to catch up with friends, neighbors and those people you have to put up with because they live in town. It’s the place to watch boys grow up, challenge themselves, prove themselves. Learn to win. Learn to lose. It’s the place to be on Friday night. Partly because there’s nothing else to do and partly because it’s fun to be a part of what happens there.
Countless stories – from the inspiring to the heartbreaking — come out of these small towns. Local stories. But one small Iowa town has received national headlines for the inspiration and heartbreak they’ve endured in just a few short years.
Parkersburg, Iowa, was devestated by a nasty tornado in late May, 2008. The town was decimated, the high school in shambles, and the football field unrecognizable. Help came to the town from miles around. And so very slowly, the town tried to put themselves back together again.
As so often happens in small towns, high school football brings everyone together, and long-time head coach Ed Thomas committed to getting the football field in shape for the 2008 season. Rival teams came to help pick up debris on the field, while team members helped their families, teammates and coach.
And Coach T kept his promise. The Falcons had a field.
Inspiring.
Although it takes years to recover from the kind of devestation Parkersburg saw, a football season brought a measure of healing to the town.
And summer 2009 rolled around with life feeling normal again.
But then, one summer morning, a former football player, the son of a former player, walked into the high school’s weight room in the midst of summer workouts. And fatally shot Coach Ed Thomas.
In small towns, guys like Coach T are the pillars a community stands on. As a coach for over a generation, he was the kind of tie that bonds fathers and sons and brothers as they grow from pee-wee to NFL pros (yes, Coach T had a couple of those). And after helping the town recover from the twister, his loss was the kind of sucker punch that can knock you out.
The team and community was devestated once again. To watch your town blow away. To watch your coach die. What do you do with that? Especially as a high school student?
Heartache.
Sports Illustrated covered this story. And last night, the first-ever Iowa high school football game was nationally televised. The Aplington-Parkersburg Falcons defeated Dike-New Hartford in their season opener. The second season on their revived field. The first season without their coach.
The Falcons have traditionally been an Iowa powerhouse in their division, thanks primarily to Coach T. They have a shot at state again this year. And winning does help healing.
The alleged shooter’s younger brother is a senior lineman, a member of one of the most tightly knit groups to play on what is now Ed Thomas Field. His parents were in the stands. The family is grieving with the rest of the community, even as the community is reaching out to them.
And all this goes beyond both inspiring and heartbreaking. The best and the worst of life, all played out on a football field in a small town in the middle of nowhere, Heartland, U.S.A.